Today while I was coming home from the grocery store after fighting with both
Kanyon and Miranda during the trip (Miranda only wanted to be held - not in the shopping cart and she can scream really loud and
Kanyon would whine every time I told him "no" to something that he wanted - which was a lot of things!) I decided I should try to have a talk with
Kanyon.
Here's how the conversation went:
Me: Buddy, I really need you to help me out. With daddy gone I really need you to listen to me and not argue with me all the time.
Kanyon: It's
Kaydra's job to help you.
Me: Yes, but I need your help too. Daddy's not here and so I need you to be big and help me like I know five-year-
old's can.
Kanyon: You guys should have thought about it better. I don't like this plan - it's not a good plan.
He's right. It's not a good plan -- but it's an okay plan and the best that we could come up with. Things are actually going okay. The days are long but we all make it through in the end. We have done some fun things lately and I think that it will be better when things settle down a bit. I forgot to take pictures of dyeing Easter eggs - of course. And the next night we planted flower seeds and vegetable starts for my mom and sister and brothers' garden this spring. I forgot to take pictures of that, too. Then last night we (the girls and Jake - minus Miranda) went to a hair fashion show at the Civic Auditorium that Jana was modeling in. It was really fun. They played lots of music and had lots of really funky hair and make-up. Jana looked great - she looked like she could have been a runway model.
Kaydra thought it was a lot of fun. I didn't take any pictures of that either. I know that I am slacking. We're just keeping it together!
Today I let the kids take Miranda for a walk around the block to our house to get the mail. They were gone a little while and then I could hear
Kaydra and Miranda crying. I met them at the door.
Kaydra was carrying Miranda and they were both crying. Miranda had a big bump on her head.
Kaydra said that the stroller tipped over and Miranda hit her head on the street.
Kaydra was fine but she was so worried about Miranda that she was crying too. Miranda is going to be okay but she will have a pretty good bruise to show for it in the morning. I did take a picture of this but the picture doesn't do it justice. Her bump was about the size of a golf ball and raised about 3/4 inch.

Poor girl. She seemed to be alright though. We'll watch her close. The kids felt really bad.
Kanyon said, "I wish that wouldn't have happened." Another end to another day.